Phoebe talks about her preference for situationships over relationships in an interview with Precious, in-house contributor at Safespace.
Hello guys and gals,
For today’s letter, I interviewed Phoebe. You know what I found out?
Situationships are better than relationships – at least Phoebe thinks so. Also, pidgin is a pretty cool thing to include in a letter.
Leggo!
*Relationships are exhausting abeg*
Talking to Phoebe has me questioning my opinion on relationships now. She somehow managed to make me see the sense in situationships.
E shock you? Alaye. We talk say na “Sex and relationships” we dey do na. Make we forget the relationships wey dey there?
There’s this Tik Tok video with a lot of girls in it choosing one of two options – relationships or situationships. So, I asked Phoebe what her preferred option is.
She’s a full-time ambassador for situationships.
For context (or clarity as you’d prefer), let me tell you what a situationship is.
A situationship is like a relationship without the commitment or you know the seriousness of a relationship. Y’all dig each other and while you’re feeling each other for whatever reason there’s no signs of it becoming an actual relationship.
When Phoebe explained situationships, I got curious. Why would anyone be in a relationship that isn’t really a relationship?
Phoebe answered beautifully.
According to Phoebe:
Situationships are stress-free and fun without the emotional rollercoaster that comes with relationships. It is easy to move on if things get dramatic.
Now, after doing a lot of thinking, I choose situationships. Screw relationships! no be me advice you sha, I fit change mouth tomorrow if they show me love and affection so…
I’d love to hear from you. Who’s your winner? Situationships or Relationships?
Love, Me.
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